{"id":4398,"date":"2006-02-12T21:31:00","date_gmt":"2006-02-12T21:31:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.pinkhairedgirl.net\/?p=4"},"modified":"2006-02-12T21:31:00","modified_gmt":"2006-02-12T21:31:00","slug":"would-you-like-my-jacket-with-that","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sherecovery.com\/blog\/?p=4398","title":{"rendered":"would you like my jacket with that?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>last<br \/>\nnight i attended a wedding&#8230; so &quot;enter girly emotional feelings&quot; here.<br \/>\nnot just because of the wedding and the love in the air &#8211; but because<br \/>\nof other girly emotional issues i am dealing with&#8230; but to add to the<br \/>\ncharacter of the post &#8211; weddings lately have really aggravated me for<br \/>\njust the basic reason of &quot;i want that and why can&#8217;t i hate it?&quot; &quot;where<br \/>\nis my content in my singleness?&quot; or the real kicker, &quot;why am i single<br \/>\nwhen every one around me seems to be finding some one?&quot; <\/p>\n<p>HUGE DRAMATIC PROBLEM, RIGHT?!<\/p>\n<p>my<br \/>\nselfish and ridiculous &quot;problems&quot; were swiftly pushed out the way today<br \/>\nwhen the following happened while getting lunch on the way home. <\/p>\n<p>as<br \/>\nwe were about to leave to come home &#8211; we decided to go grab some lunch<br \/>\nat a &quot;Jimmy John&#8217;s&quot; in downtown lincoln. while we were there, a what<br \/>\nappeared to be a homeless man was in there basically stealing a drink<br \/>\nand a plain old bag of chips&#8230; it was obvious from on-lookers this<br \/>\nhomeless man had very little intent of actually purchasing the items<br \/>\nbut since &quot;he already touched it&quot; (quote from cashier) &#8211; he was<br \/>\n&quot;allowed&quot; to have the chips and the drink&#8230; yet was quickly kicked<br \/>\nback outside in the freezing cold because he could not pay&#8230;<br \/>\napparently not worthy of a warm seat. (really<br \/>\nthe only &quot;loss&quot; the business took was like 10 cents&#8230;) i hope the<br \/>\nworld doesn&#8217;t stop spinning and world comes to an end because it&#8230;<br \/>\ngoodness. <\/p>\n<p>a<br \/>\npart of my heart sank today. i so badly wanted to go up to the cashier<br \/>\nand say, &quot;hey dude &#8211; calm down &#8211; i will pay for his chips and drink&#8230;<br \/>\nand even a sandwich if he wants it&quot; &#8211; but before i could even do that &#8211;<br \/>\nthe cashier shunned him and the homeless man with chips and drink in<br \/>\nhis wind-chapped hands&#8230; was kicked out on his poor disoriented butt..<br \/>\nto face another day of gawkers and disgusted looks from those who have<br \/>\nno mercy&#8230; <\/p>\n<p>i believe that &#8211; JESUS in all of this gracious and<br \/>\ngiving spirit&#8230; would have shown mercy &#8211; even given him his OWN<br \/>\nlunch&#8230; the jacket off his back&#8230; and on top of that &#8211; would have sat<br \/>\noutside with him and just loved him&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>&#8230;i wish i had done that today&#8230; <\/p>\n<p>my petty problems are just that &#8211; petty &#8211; when it comes to what problems face others every day&#8230; all day&#8230; <\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>last night i attended a wedding&#8230; so &quot;enter girly emotional feelings&quot; here. not just because of the wedding and the love in the air &#8211; but because of other girly emotional issues i am dealing with&#8230; but to add to the character of the post &#8211; weddings lately have really aggravated me for just the&hellip; <a class=\"more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/sherecovery.com\/blog\/?p=4398\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">would you like my jacket with that?<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[45],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4398","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-personal-growth","entry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/sherecovery.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4398","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/sherecovery.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/sherecovery.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sherecovery.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sherecovery.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=4398"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/sherecovery.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4398\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/sherecovery.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=4398"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sherecovery.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=4398"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sherecovery.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=4398"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}