At SheRecovery, our recovery framework is grounded in The SCARS Model™, developed by our founder, Crystal Renaud Day: Surrender, Confession, Accountability, Responsibility, and Sharing (S.C.A.R.S.). These five principles provide a practical framework for moving beyond secrecy and isolation toward honesty, support, responsibility, and lasting healing.
Our meetings currently follow Crystal’s book, What Drives Women to Porn? Why Women Struggle Sexually—and How to Heal. Rather than focusing only on stopping an unwanted sexual behavior, the curriculum helps women explore what may be driving it—including emotional, relational, identity, trauma, and spiritual factors—and begin addressing the deeper needs and patterns beneath the behavior. The book also incorporates The SCARS Model™ as a framework for putting recovery into practice. You can preview the book with our 7-Day YouVersion Plan.
We use What Drives Women to Porn? to provide structure for our meetings, meaningful conversation, and opportunities for deeper reflection and accountability. But SheRecovery Membership is not a book study or a program you have to begin at Week One. Membership is an ongoing recovery community, and you are welcome to join at any time—regardless of where we are in the current curriculum.
There’s no need to “catch up” before attending, and you don’t have to read the book on your own to participate. Simply come as you are and join the conversation. As a member, you’ll have ongoing access to SheRecovery meetings and community support as we move through different recovery curricula and topics throughout the year.
All SheRecovery meetings are held over Zoom and facilitated by women who are trained in counseling and/or coaching specialties, have experience in long-term recovery, or both. Zoom details and all meeting information are available upon enrollment below.
Ready to find support and begin connecting with women who understand? You can join SheRecovery Membership at any time and start attending meetings right away.
For girls under 18, we have meetings for you too! Click here to learn more.
With SheRecovery Membership, you will also have immediate access to our private chat communities on GroupMe. These feature multiple chat groups including:
- Main (for all members)
- Accountability Partners (for seeking partners)
- Singles (for single women)
- Marrieds (for married women)
- Prayer (for prayer and to pray for others)
- Plus groups by meeting date (connect with the same people you meet with all the time)
In addition to the main group, the other groups make the chat environment smaller to build deeper connection between group meetings. Our GroupMe chats are also secure and limited to members only; with the join links accessible from the Member Portal only and all requiring admin approval before joining.
All payments will show “LIVINGPURP” on credit card/bank statements. You may cancel anytime. No refunds for unused time. We have limited scholarships and offer discounts to those facing financial hardship. Living on Purpose and its subsidiaries reserves the right, in its sole discretion, to make changes to or terminate membership and related services or any portion thereof at any time with or without notice.



